Choosing Beyond Comfort, Fear, and Personal Trajectory
“What do I want?” feels intuitive, but it may be the wrong question to ask when shaping a life.
I would like to have a discussion about decision-making through a method I have been using for many years. I could say I’ve used this method my entire life, but that wouldn’t be accurate. There have been entire decades when I discarded it and relied on other parameters instead—parameters aligned with social conditioning, pleasure, and the avoidance of pain.











